Social Media Award Winners 2011

November 1, 2011

In 2010 we had the inaugural Rock Your Life Social Media awards. In 2011 we have had some wonderful new entrants and nominations and definitely some of the 2010 people revisiting.  This year it’s been a bit of an award scoop in fact and I want to acknowledge someone who has built their brand tremendously in 2011, who has literally been everywhere, a champion for their cause and just helping so many people.

In fact in 2011 they have won the following awards:

Best You Tube Content

Most interesting content

Most prolific social media person

and was the founder of the winner of Best Fan Site

Congratulations to Matthias Gelber. Born in Germany and living in Malaysia where Matthias is known as ‘the green man’ he is committed to sustainability, greening your environment, producing non toxic waste from business and his own pet project – green building materials. Matthias has been a speaker and SAGE at Rock Your Business in Malaysia & Singapore this year and has been heralded on Magazne Covers and by government and royalty in the Philippines and Malaysia for his efforts. In addition he is one of the featured luminaries in Emily Gowor’s Transformational Leaders book released in July 2011.  Well done Matthias:

Matthias in Green strutting at Rock Your Business

Best Tweeter

The lady who won this award never believed anyone would vote for her. Lena Lim is a social media expert based also in Malaysia. She is an expert at setting up and managing social media and web based content for your enterprise. Her tweets are interesting and profound. Lena would be a huge benefit to any business that wants to raise their profile globally via Social Media.

Best Blog

Last years winner – the word artist Emily Gowor has again stormed home in this catagory. A brilliant and profound sharer of the truth Emily has again been a regular and intensive blogger sharing her wisdom from the journeys she has had and people she has met. If you are looking for profound content and writing then you should probably speak to Emily and get her writing for you.

Best Blogs 2011 - Emily Gowor

Best Fan Site

Eco-warriors Malaysia was started by Matthias Gelber a few years ago and has grown to over 3,000 members. Every few weekend the team jumps off cyberspace to go planting trees in the peat marshes near Kuala Lumpur. This group not only shares wisdom and community on line but takes it off line where they make a real difference. Congratulations Ecowarrior team. Hopefully your win will inspire others in their home cities to assist the environment.

Social Media Celebrity 2011

The most tightly contested catagory in 2011 was the overall social media celebrity, with only 5 votes seperating first and second and ten between the top four. Congratulations go to a man who is always top of all social media especially his tweets and facebook posts. For the second year running our winner is the founder o of Triumphant Events and best selling author Daniel Preistley.

Daniel Priestley

In some tightly fought competitions some catagories came down to a matter of a few votes. In recognition, the 2011 runners up are:

Best You Tube:  Glen Levy (The most dangerous man on the planet)

Most Interesting Content: Dave Rogers (Asia’s leading entrepreneur coach)

Most Prolific: Leila Benelli (Champion for ADHD and Radio DJ)

Best Tweeter: Anna Gervai (Orchid Web Design)

Best Fan Site: XL Results Foundation

Best Blog: Clayton Johnston

Social Media Celebrity: Roger James Hamilton (Wealth Dynamics)

 

Dean Liprini – Pathways to the Sun

October 24, 2011

Dave Rogers read this marvellous book by South African Dean Liprini a few years back, and when were were in Capetown on March 22 (Dave’s birthday) we climbed Table Mountain with Dean to do an incredible Sunrise Ceremony. So what is ‘Pathways to the Sun’

Dean has spent twenty years studying the sacred geometry of Africa, and in particular Table Mountain. When we climbed to the Ascension Cave with him later that day it became obvious. A sacred light grid surrounds table mountain – a network of sacred springs, caves and geometrically aligned marker stones. In fact when you realise it, you can see much of the mountain has been carved to honour the sun.

Who did this? What message were they sending us?

Afterwards I did my research, like I always do and found that the sites Dean was showing us were key sites on the Becker-Hagen Grid, the secret ley lines that connect ancient sites all around the world.

You see there is much that you and I take for granted that we should not. Civilisation is not 5,000 years old. Baloney, who ever teaches that needs to get their facts straight. Did you know for example that the mirror site of Giza (the great pyramids) is Angkor Wat. (Cambodia). These two places are 72 degrees distant from each other, and triangulating them at 104 degrees from each is Easter Island and the magical statues of Rapu Nui. 72 & 104, are both precessional numbers, profound in tracking the precession of the equinoxs and earths wobble. So ancient sites are linked in a way we would find hard to do, but back to Table Mountain.

Dean took us to a cave where humans had lived and performed burial rites up to 100,000 years ago. As I walked into the cave and observed Dean do a very ancient ceremony (which he said just felt right) for Dave’s birthday, I seemed to go back in time and saw a line of people shabbily dressed in furs signalling a three fingered signal to Dean. Later I read his book ‘Pathways to the Sun’ and found the same sign in the book. It’s a very ancient sign still used today by shaman and means ‘faith, hope and truth’

Dean took us to the statue of Nefretiti, apparantly a natural rock (yeah right) and to some of the gateways that activate during the various equinox’s. Included in this was the very resonant singing rock. Fascinating, and most certainly in F#.

Following the tour Dave and I decided that in 2012, we would return to the birth place of humanity. While everyone else is waiting for the end of the world and heading to the Mayan Kingdoms to embrace it, we will rebirth humanity, with our special guest guide Dean Liprini, in southern africa. This means not only the majestically sculptured table mountain, but many of the ancient sites where humans lived 150,000 years ago, plus integrating with the giant energy spots on the grid and of course Africa’s amazing animals, including getting to see the whale migration, one of the most amazing sites on earth.

Not doing much in September 2012 yet, join us for the experience of your lifetime…. wow. I cannot wait.

Email us at info@rockyourlife.net if you would like some information.

What we don’t know about ‘the law of attraction’

October 22, 2011

Go and sit under a Bodhi tree and dream of a Mercedes. Keep repeating to yourself ‘I need a Mercedes. I need a Mercedes.’ Then go for an ice cream…. ask the girl her name and it will be – Anita Mercedes.

OK… so you may be laughing or you may not be.

So what’s wrong with the above picture… firstly the energy is all wrong. ‘I NEED’ simply is not something the Universe really wants to deliver on. Secondly, contrary to popular opinion simply repeating something is again not the energy of the universe.

So how does it work?

Well to be honest – no one really knows – not even Esther Hicks who wrote and sold millions of books on the Law of Attraction, but I can give you some pointers that will really help you, based on my own and others experiences that I personally know about.

1. Visualization is not enough

Whilst the best sports players are brilliant visualizers, the fact is that you are only using one sense – the sight (or insight in this case). My good buddy Glen levy manifested Mel, his girlfriend in under a few hours by completing a strong visualisation using all the senses – sight, sound, touch, taste, smell – and the 6th and 7th senses of intuition and quantum.

2. Let it go

Once you have a very strong intention – let it go. In other words, allow the universe to bring the components to you that will set this up. Don’t force the hand. Most of us struggle to move 50kg, so moving the entire universe is just plain undoable. In fact Glen simply decided to go to the hot pools and there she was.

3. It’s all about vibration and holding the vision.

In James Redfield’s Celestine Prophecy the 9th insight is holding the vision. It’s about holding the energy. So I have found the best way to do that is to have it in front of you regularly as a reminder, to breathe, work with good vibration on it, such as a favourite song and what has worked for me is having it in a sign in a certain part of your space. My bathroom signs seems to manifest quickly for me, probably because I am thinking about them when I am showering, the water of course creating that beautiful grounding vibration.

4. Careful what you ask for

Don’t say ‘I would like to lose 20kg’ – You really don’t want to lose a body part. Try ‘I will enjoy being 20kg lighter through ease, joy and grace. I once thought I would like more freedom… so I ended up single pretty soon after. Word’s have vibration and it’s powerful – read some of Masuri Emoto’s work on vibration, words and water. Set strong, positive and powerful intentions. A few years back asked for $30,000 in the next month. I got it, but it was all revenue, not profit, so it wasn’t a great help.

5. Let the universe guide you

Things don’t have a ‘way’ of being delivered, they have many ways. So stop blocking them. Here is a personal example. I have been thinking about a particular type of person I would like to meet and get to know. Just recently I got a facebook request and I immediately knew that was the person, I didn’t even have to click on the details, I just knew… so what did I do… make contact after first blocking using my head …thinking, no dont connect… luckily I went with the Quantum (7th sense). The connection has been profound in so many magical ways.

Finally – you need clarity on what you really want – I once kept joking to my friends that I wanted to be a trillionaire. I got spanked by the universe when my friend Holly gave me a five trillion dollar note after a trip to Zimbabwe (value around $2USD). Please try and block the following from your thoughts and words immediately and you will start to see some different energy appearing in your life:

  • I hate
  • I need
  • I want
  • Poor me
  • I don’t like
  • Give me
Have fun playing with visualisation using the 7 senses and expanding some of the other points here and let me know how you get on.

Breathe – The 9 Celestine Insights

September 9, 2011

Are you spiritual? That used to be such a no-no word. A couple of years ago I looked it up. The word spirit, literally means breath. So I guess we are all spiritual. Tyler Tolman recently posted the same information on Facebook.

You may wonder what breath has to do with the nine insights of the Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield, but I can tell you that in our recently finished Spirit of the Inca’s tour, where Dave Rogers and I led a group from seven different countries through Peru & Bolivia, breath was something most of us learned to appreciate.

Located about 10,000ft up in the Andes we danced between Cusco, Macchu Picchu, Lake Titicaca and La Paz. Where ever we went there seemed to be steps and more steps, never going down, always up. The air up here is remarkably thin and low on oxygen. I thought I was a little unfit, but compared to many I was gliding up those hills, although everytime I stopped I wasn’t breathing hard, I was gasping trying to get some oxygen from the air. A number of us commented how we sometimes woke in the middle of the night gasping for air, and most of the group sucked on an oxygen cylinder at least once.

Back to breathing soon.

In 1995 I was in Peru. Redfields book had just come out, and the reaction I recieved in Peru was fascinating. Everything from non belief to fear to anger, depending on whom I asked. It made our 2011 trip the perfect platform to allocate a day to each insight. I would recommend you take the next 9 days and see if you can allocate a day per insight and just journal what pops up for you.

1. Meaningful coincidences.

Look for the message in the coincidence. The book said when we see doubles of people we know (dopplegangers) that the double has a message for us. My first night in Lima I met a doppleganger of a very good friend. When I asked her what the message was, she said nothing and then got really upset with someone else because she didn’t listen. It reminded me to never get angry at someone and decide what it is they said. Always seek clarity and not just guess. – good start to my insights.
2. Historical Perspective
History is ‘his-story’. What we know of the past is what someone has chosen to tell us. Many of the group became angry at the spanish conquistadors, for tearing down inca temples and building churches on them. What I know from years of study is temples are built on temples. Solomons temple became Herod’s temple, which became the jerusalem Temple and is now the Muslim temple ‘the dome of the rock‘. Be aware of the story behind the story you are being told.

Stones were stolen from Sacsayhauman to build a church

3. Subtle Energy
This is a fun way to see beauty in everything, and auras of trees, people and from this you can scan their energy, check for ill health, intention and many other aspects. One of our group, Harley, volunteered on the top of Ollyantambo and on using the technique of squinting our eyes and blurring our vision many of the group were able to see his aura, some seeing an aura for the first time ever.
4. Competition for energy
People compete for your energy. We play out four major dramas in order to steal energy from others. We interrogate people, intimidate people, are aloof or say ‘poor me’ stories. We have been sucked into many of these dramas, even our parents ones for too long. Don’t give them energy and they cannot exist. To prove a competition for energy our meeting room ended up between two train lines in a beautiful place at the base of Macchu Picchu. We can’t overtalk a train, and the trains always came when we were talking about competition for energy. The group saw that as a meaningful coincidence.
5. The fifth insight is energy is abundant. The most abundant energy is pure love. Spend time with your pet when you feel low, or a giggly child, it’s hard to stay down. We don’t need to compete for energy. We don’t need to suck someone dry. If we tap into universal energy from trees, the air, oceans etc we use a very small amount and we always have abundant energy. The beauty of Macchu Picchu proved this. After a days climbing at high altitudes the group was not the least bit tired over dinner. In fact they were very lively.

Over 60 and doing it easy

6. Getting Clear
Getting clear is about letting go of your own dramas and patterns that have held you back. Stop being an aloof, poor me, intimidator or interrogator to steal energy. Don’t feed others dramas. Focus on clarity, beauty and love. Gillian from the group hadn’t expected the physical and emotional reaction she had to Ollymantambo, yet after she knew she had been there in a past life, she had no need to hang onto the old emotions. She acknowledged them, thanked them and became present. Being present is a great way to get clear.
7. Intuition
Watch for meaningful coincidences and allow your heart to guide you. Both Dave and I intuited that our sunrise ceremony in Puno needed to be by the lake, on the floating wharf. The result was an incredible and memorable ceremony, with the sun warming all and many being able to see the rainbow bridge (the suns rainbow connecting to you) for the first time in their lives (self included). Intuition is the 6th sense and one most of us need to use so much more.
8. Relating to Others
Have you ever been addicted to another human being? I know I have. It’s repulsive for them and creates no attraction for you, with any of your friends or family. Your focus cuts the love. Everyone has a message that you can learn from and the connection with others in meaningful ways ensures they get it. On leaving the floating islands of Lake Titicaca, the local Armana women sang a song to us. Not one of their songs, but twinkle twinkle little star, and finished with ‘Asta La Vista Baby’. We all laughed joyously, but we got that they had connected with us in a way we would never forget.

At the floating islands

9. Conscious Evolution
The Mayans left the planet in a rapture. In the last 25 years we have developed more spiritually than ever before. It’s ok now even for men to hug and cry and show emotion. That never happened in the 1980′s. We can communicate now more deeply than ever before. Stop worrying about the mortgage, the business, your new car. the future is about less work and about more relationship with mother earth (Pachemama). It’s also about communication and connection between us, and acceptance of race, colour, creed like never before.
There is a tenth insight, and thats all about holding the vision. In other words not allowing dramas to get in the way. At Macchu Picchu we were in an area about to do a vibrational exercise. A tour guide came and competed for energy saying we couldn’t do that there, as he wanted to bring his group. So we accepted and moved – 20 metres. The result as the group did it’s vibrational exercise was a dynamic blue orb formed and floated between us. We held the vision. Can you?

Hello Orb!

When you have to focus on your breath, you notice yourself breathing. Everything else becomes secondary. When you do this you slow down. You see beauty you have never seen before. You see the energy of people and things. You listen and use all your senses, even intuition more capably. You realise that time is measurable and that you are part of one giant life – mother earth and that you have a part to play that you will do so much better from that time on.

Where does the time go?

August 11, 2011

Einstein said: ‘Time is like a river running over stones, sometimes it flows fast, sometimes it’s slow, sometimes it even stops – but it is never constant”

It occurred to me the other day when I was on a SKYPE call that something weird happens on SKYPE. Here I am chatting with my client and then the system breaks down and in the middle of the sentence I hear them say:

‘So can you help me with..with…with…with…with…with’ and after a pause of around 5 seconds they finish. I say ‘Sure I can’ but at the same time I am thinking – so they just burbled for at least 5 whole seconds (a life time over a call) and I then replied in my real time yet they experienced no lag. So if they were speaking in real time and I answered immediately in real time then where did the 5 seconds come from and how come it was real for me and not them?

I’m sure you have had a similar experience and mostly you know theye is a delay, but when there isn’t one what do you do? Do you realise that time just skipped a beat?

Time of course does skip beats regularly….and it speeds up and slows down. Go on a first date with the love of your life and you will experience time moving so slowly that you can be aware of every nuance. If you are in an airline queue, read a magazine and if it’s interesting time will seem to mysteriously speed up. So how do you control time?

The answer is in FLOW. Let me explain it to you with some rationality.

When you watch a film at the theatre, the average speed of the film is 64FPS. To you it looks like normal speed, so your brain is processing at 64FPS. If they doubled the speed of the film to 128FPS you would see slow motion.

When a person is in flow, like a fabulous sportsperson such as David Beckham, he or she is processing faster than normal. Let’s assume their opponent who is coming to get the ball is processing normally at 64FPS, but they are processing at 128FPS, then our sportsperson is seeing the tackle coming in slow motion. They can think, make a decision and easily dodge the tackle and to us its seems the blink of an eye. Now obviously they need skills and all the rest of the package, but this is literally what happens with their brain. They turn up the processing power.

For you to get in flow and slow time down, you need to turn up the processing power. This can be done via certain meditative techniques, to improve speed or reduce it to make things go faster (such as dinner at the mother in laws). The fact is if you don’t use your processor you will lose the flow. That’s why the old saying says: ‘Want something done – give it to a busy person.’

Now Richard Branson has a zillion great managers, but he is still responsible for more than 200 companies and he fits all that, plus his interests and his coolness into the same 24 hrs as we do. get processing.

The Mayans said we are in a period where time has sped up. This is the result of all of our processors increasing in the last century. In fact they even said that our measuring devices (atomic clocks) would be affected by our consciousness and look the same, whilst they were actually speeding up as well.

I don’t know how much of your life you want to have left. 90%, or 10% thats for you to decide, but I know I want to pack as much into my life as I can, so I choose to speed up thatprocessor and get doing stuff. Try breaking your day into thirds, morning, afternoon and evening and you will find you can achieve a whole lot more than you believed. Happy time travel…

Communication – does it suck these days?

July 12, 2011

People don’t communicate the way they used to… but is that good or bad. For me I find some of it down right rude. I’m not saying you can reply to every Facebook invite personally, or event you have been invited to but maybe I can get some feedback on common decency.

For example, recently someone bought a $4,000 product from me. We got through stage 1 of implementation, but they still hadn’t paid. I texted and wrote to them a couple of times and they promised on 20 May, so I…in dumb good faith kept providing the service and here it is 12 July and still no payment. I’ve made contact three times but no reply, nothing…then recently I bump into them at a business event and they are like: ‘Oh great to see you, hey I’ll come and chat with you before this is over’. and of course they didn’t, so it prompted me to write this blog, because frankly I am sick of it.

What’s with communication? You have a party at your house, you put in for wine and food, invite your friends and some don’t even reply.

Most marriages and business partnerships break down because of lack of good communication, so maybe we can get some input and get things back on a polite and decent way forward. So here are some tips for good communication:

  • If you owe someone money and you can’t pay, then communicate with them, pay them what you can but keep them informed. Even most debt collectors will go easy on people who communicate the situation, even if it’s not going to be a great outcome for them.
  • With friends, always call or text them back if they want something….don’t leave them hanging. Let them know where you are at.
  • Skype – when you are in a conversation with someone, don’t just go away, have a coffee, go to the toilet or do something else…say… I’ll be back in 5 or whatever… nothing is worse than hanging on Skype wondering where the other person has gone or if they are ever coming back.
  • Don’t tell your spouse or partner you will be there at 6 and turn up at 8. That’s a no go. Give them a quick call or text and tell them you will be there soon enough.
The thing I always say to people is ‘keep me in the loop’ or ‘keep me up to date’. Let’s face it sometimes things take longer than what we expect, but communication keeps us in the loop so at least we know what is going on.
If you have any great tips on how to communicate better, then add them as comments to this blog. Treat others with a little more respect than you would normally think of and it goes a long way… and lastly…for the salespeople reading this: Tell people what will happen after they buy from you, that you won’t run away, that there is an implementation of the product or service and what to expect and call them or email them and find out how they are doing. Phoning is very 1970′s but 10 times more effective than email.
Happy communicating.

Leadership Style

June 12, 2011

So you are not a leader – rubbish!

Every person on earth is a leader in some way, to our children, neighbours, workmates, sports friends or even passer’s by. I know I have seen some one walking down the street and gone, wow that person is a leader. Just last week I met a business woman and within 10 seconds I knew she was a leader.

So what’s your leadership style?

In the 1980′s Hersey & Blanchard created a leadership matrix. It’s pretty simple yet effective for most of us, but then I want to overlay it with something else to give it context.

The model is based on two axis – support and direction. You as a leader are either supportive or directive and this gives us 4 permutations as follows:

1. HIgh Support/ Low Direction – Participative/Supportive – Someone who leads but does and is involved. This is the most effective style for modern leadership

2. High Support/ High Direction – Selling/Coaching – This style is the person who constantly motivates to get people to do things

3. Low Support/ Low Direction – Delegating – This style is where the job holder is motivated and can be left alone to get things done

4. Low Support/ High Direction – Telling – generally the most ineffective method of leadership. This is the old boss – employee method still used a lot in factories and the third world.

The whole model is about effective leadership and each style can be effective at times, yet when we overlay this onto the Wealth Dynamics chart and look at each of the eight profiles we see that there are in fact 32 permeations of leaders.

For instance – many Creators (ideas people) are not brilliant communicators and have a telling style of leadership. This means that staff or believers only believe for a while and then they become disillusioned. A creator who is participative, will tend to build teams of people who can really generate their wealth, because everyone is involved and engaged. The creator is simply a cog in the wheel. Bill Gates has done this brilliantly.

On the other hand a Trader profile (grounded and people orientated) often becomes a great leader when they are able to employ a delegating strategy. Surrounding themselves with experts in different fields, and co ordinating timing on tasks but leaving people free to make decisions in their fields and bring the result to the team.

Importantly for you is to consider what style of leader you are – telling, selling, delegating or participative most of the time and then study your profile and decide whether that style has been working for or against you. What may work for me as a star profile doesn’t always work for you as a star as well.

Research and find out more. You can never know too much about you as a leader. Fine tuning will help you become an even better leader.

Visit www.mikehandcock.net to find out more on leadership

Royalty v Realty – Prince William and Princess Kate

May 9, 2011

I admit it. I was one of the 2 billion watchers of the Royal Wedding. I was working doing some editing at the same time, but yes I watched. Didn’t it suck how much obvious pressure the couple were under. I think if it had of been Harry he would have dipped the bride and laid a big smooch right on her, but ‘we don’t do that around here.’

Brilliantly though and once the eyes of us 2 billion were off them they kicked back til 3am, partied it up. Harry of course was people surfing and everybody had a great time….probably once Liz and Phil went to bed. Read the rest of this entry »

The Spiritual Entrepreneur

April 20, 2011

I used to get corporates saying to me. “NO you cant use the ‘S’ word in your talks.” I would ask if they knew what the word spirit literally meant. No one ever did. The word ‘Spirit’ literally means ‘Breath’ so: ‘I can’t talk about breath in my talks?’

I am so pleased with the last few years. Whilst we have dealt with Tsunami’s, Recessions, Wars and other terrible things, the world is becoming more spiritual. Two weeks ago I’m in Africa having a spiritual conversation with a group of Muslim friends. A week ago Im in Australia talking about Christianity with a person who is Chinese. Thank goodness people’s minds are opening. Read the rest of this entry »

Be Prepared – Boy Scouts Motto – Be Present – My Motto

March 24, 2011

Just thought I would tell you about my day yesterday as i believe it can serve you.

Woke up at 7.30am, and was texting backwards and forwards across the world. I’m in South Africa, coming to the end of a great tour here.

Dave Rogers & I went for breakfast in the hotel and he briefly met the owner of the hotel. Capetown Lodge is a beautifully maintained hotel with attention to detail. Run by Raymond Gnesin we had a truly wonderful experience during our seminars there and would totally recommend it as a place to go and stay in Capetown. Read the rest of this entry »


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